Your Bride
Now while you might well be wondering how one apparently small question could have such massive repercussions just bare in mind what this day means to the lovely lady in question. Most guys have never really given much thought to their future wedding but for many women it is a day they have pictured from their earliest memory. When you were scuffing your new school shoes chasing a ball your bride-to-be was already dreaming of her future Prince Charming
(although at the time he was probably wearing a cape rather than your favourite sneakers and T-shirt). It’s an over used phrase that it’s the most
special day in a girl’s life but it is true. And what’s more she expects it to hold the same significance for you. So while she’s buying a newsstand’s
entire stock of wedding magazines and showing you the 27 different ways she’s thinking of wearing her hair she’s hoping that thoughtful look on your
face relates to your own ideas for the wedding rather than whether you’ll get to sneak out for a quick 18 holes this weekend rather than go to
yet another wedding fair. Oh yeah… and she’ll wear a dress that will cost the price of a small family car. And then never ever wear it again.
Communication is key. Despite your beloved now having turned into bridezilla, in the words of Rudyard Kipling you need to “keep your
head when all about you are losing theirs”. She IS going to get stressed. She IS going to get upset. You WILL have arguments
concerning the wedding day. All this is perfectly natural and doesn’t mean you love each other any less it just means you’re
planning a wedding and researchers say this is one of the most stressful events in a persons life. Especially for the bride.
One of the biggest complaints brides have is that their husband-to-be doesn’t seem to get involved enough or show enough interest.
You possibly don’t care what colour the napkins should be or how many glasses each person should have but these details matter
to her so make them important to you. And when she is freaking out over small details that don’t seem to matter at all listen to her
complaints, try and help and then gently bring her back down to planet earth.
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